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Spouse or the dog?
@ 2006-09-05 – 16:03:37
Xiao Fang is a Beijing housewife who regrets her decision to hire four men to kill her husband's pet dog. Unfortunately for her, her action has caused her husband to react in a way she never expected: he is divorcing her.
When she and her husband bought a new apartment earlier this year, she didn't want the family's pet wolfhound messing it up. She tried getting rid of it herself but "it managed to come back no matter how far I had taken him" she said in a news report. So she hired four men to kill the dog when her husband was away on business.Her husband was the not only one who was upset at the dog's death. Their 17-year old son was also distraught about the death of the dog that had been the family's pet for seven years. Does wanting a clean apartment justify killing a family pet? To Xiao Fang, seeing her clean apartment soiled by a dog was too much to accept.
What she did not understand or perhaps did not want to accept was just how much her husband loved his dog regardless of any damage it may have caused to their home.
Will her husband press for divorce or will his anger and grief subside enough for him to forgive his wife's action? If the couple had been able to talk about this problem, or the problem as the wife perceived it, would they have worked out a solution that would have satisfied both of them?If ever there was a case of lack of communication having disastrous results, this is one. Maybe talking wouldn't have changed anything but for Xiao Fang a second chance may not be in her future.
This is one case.Many such cases happen,when one partner imposes his/her pet on the other.
In my opinnion,leaving a human partner for an animal is not at all acceptable.In the above case,the woman was cruel in doing all that.She should receive some treatment,may be some punishment.But pets are pets and spouses are spouses.
Loveable they are,but when the time comes when one has to make a choice betwen the pet and the spouse,it is a disgrace to the human race,that someone takes the animal as a choice,and rejects the mom of his children,or the dad of her children.
Opinnions can differ,this is my personal opinnion.
This is another kind of extremism,i will call it "Petofobia".It happens when someone gives all to a pet,when humans under their nose are being neglected.
Instead of throwng all my kisses and hugs on a adog or cat,i will prefer to go to an orphanage,and kiss and hug an talk to a neglected child,or a grandma in a care home.
I love nature and wildlife,but at the same time i love humanity. -
We are being crawled
@ 2006-09-05 – 06:41:39
These days i am doing a lot of google searches.The reason is that,i am making a website.For the website i need a nice metatext,and for that i need to know how people use the search engines.
I have used the internet since 1996.Since then i have visited many websites and i have left comments on many message boards.
I searched my usual internet ID,i mean the name i usually use over the internet,and whalla,..google searched my posts from 1997,and many of them.
The problem i am trying to point out here is that,even if our college or school,publishes our exam results,it also appears on the google search.
Long time internet users,who have been actively commenting on different websites,are easy to find on the net.Once someone knows our oldest e-mail adress,or the code name we usually use on the net,one google search will reveal a lot about us.
As a man i know that we tend to lie to our potential Girl friend,and we lie about a lot of things.
If the potential girl friend i smart and asks our e-mail adress,which most of us use as a fake name when commenting on websites.She can find a lot about us.
Well that was just an example
But i think that it is more difficult for long time internet users to keep their interests hidden.
If you are interested in something,you may have commented on a related website,and google is watching you
Try it yourself...search on google,your different internet names and your name.
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